How To Find A Kinky Partner
Zoe called the show. She’s a 27 year old with a high libido and some kinks. She doesn’t let a guy know what she’s into until she trusts him and she knows he’s interested because she’s afraid he’ll bolt. She wanted to know when to let a guy know and how to tell him what she’s into.
Dr. Cooper told her she needs to meet someone in the kink community and tell them she’s interested in building a relationship. Period. Full Stop.
Even though people are always talking about kinks, the percentage of people who are actually kinky is pretty low. The likelihood someone like Zoe will find some random guy who is as kinky as she is would be a pretty small percentage.
Sure, you may be able to find the rare person who is not kinky but willing to indulge your kink, but the problem is, they won’t be a kink person, so how long will they indulge you? How can they help you grow sexually? Not much.
So you should check out some fetish meetups. Those are called a MUNCH, you can Google Munch’s in your area.
In general, the kink community is a diverse and inclusive group of individuals who are interested in alternative forms of sexual expression. If you’re interested in joining this community, here are some steps you can take:
- Educate yourself: Before diving into the kink community, it’s important to learn about different kinks, fetishes, and BDSM practices. You can read books, watch videos, attend workshops or classes, and talk to people in the community to gain knowledge.
- Connect with the community: Joining online communities and forums can be a great way to connect with like-minded individuals who share your interests. You can also attend local events, munches (casual meetups in public places), or conferences to meet people in person.
- Be respectful: Consent is paramount in the kink community, and it’s important to be respectful of other people’s boundaries and limitations. Always ask for permission before engaging in any kind of play, and never assume that someone is willing to do something just because they’re part of the community.
- Be open-minded: The kink community is diverse, and people have different preferences and interests. It’s important to be open-minded and accepting of others, even if their kinks or fetishes aren’t your cup of tea.
- Take it slow: It’s important to take your time and ease into the community. Don’t feel pressured to participate in activities that you’re not comfortable with, and remember that it’s okay to say no.
Remember, the kink community is a safe and consensual space for people to explore their sexuality. By being respectful, open-minded, and willing to learn, you can have a fulfilling and rewarding experience in this community.
Dr. Cooper always recommends FetLife as an app. But there are other fetish dating apps and fetish meet up groups in every major city. Find someone who is into what you’re into and that way you don’t have to start a relationship not being yourself and hiding who you are and what you’re into.
The sexiest thing you can do at the beginning of any relationship is be yourself, be who you are and be proud of it!
