The Secret Psychology Of The Letter K
The psychology of stuff always fascinates me. A listener reached out to me recently and told me the story of a text exchange that ended her relationship with her friend. The subject of the conversation was politics, which is one helluva way to end a friendship. Anyways, at one point her friend texted her a simple “K.”
That’s all. The Letter K. The listener asked if she should read into it. Um, yeah! I don’t know what you did or what you said, but girl you stepped in it.
The Psychology of the Letter K
According to northcountrynow.com, phone calls are on the decline and messages via text are now the number one way we communicate. Sure, if you hate talking on the phone, that’s wonderful.
The problem is, texting can cause all kinds of issues, especially when talking to a different generation. The psychology of texting is different from one gen to the next.
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For instance, Gen X will use full sentences and grammar (not me of course), while Gen Z will forgo all that nonsense. In fact, Gen Z sees punctuation and capitalization as formal and even curt.
And communication shortcuts? Well, let’s just say there’s a right way and a wrong way.
Like texting the word “okay”. You can do it sans the period at the end “Okay. “.
Enter The Letter K
So indeed, it’s acceptable to say,” okay”, “sounds good” or even “cool.” But when you use the letter K as a response? Well friend, That’s nuclear. Because, let’s face it, the letter K is the biggest jerk of the alphabet. The bully of all the ABC’s. The Letter K is so savage, when you text it, you might as well be talking with your middle finger.
Think about all the words that start with K like klutz, kidney, kale (who eats that crap?). And all the words it doesn’t belong in like knife, knuckle, knabble (what does that even mean?). But there K is, in words that it has no place in, just sitting there waiting for you to fail your spelling test. Like the jerk that it is.
So, when deciding to miscommunicate with a friend in the future, save your friendship by knowing the psychology behind your texting.
And, above all, please stop talking politics. K?