While Searching A Porn Site I Came Across Myself
When you listen to The Cooper and Anthony Show, you never know what to expect!
Q: James called and told us his porn of choice is voyeur video. He never had a problem with it and never thought about it. He said that for the most part it was obvious that it was porn actors but he could suspend disbelief. Until the day he saw himself in a video. He found video of himself naked floating in a pool and then naked in the outdoor shower. He told us he’s enraged by this but doesn’t understand why. Does this mean he should stop looking at voyeur porn?
A: Our Dr. Cooper explained. You are upset for two reasons. One is because you didn’t consent. You didn’t consent to being filmed and you didn’t consent to agreeing to have the video uploaded to a site where someone else could be making money off of your ass, literally.
Second, most voyeurs are not exhibitionists. So, that is also likely why you’re angry. This doesn’t fit into your kink. You like to do the watching, not be watched.
THIS IS WHY ETHICAL PORN IS VITAL
This is the problem with porn, in general. You don’t know who is uploading what with consent or not which is why we keep saying over and over that you MUST look at consensual, ethical porn only! It’s out there and not hard to find. We always recommend porn made by women for women because they follow stricter guidelines of consent.
EXPECTATION OF PRIVACY VIOLATION
Also, if you are outdoors naked you should expect that people might see you. Even if you’re naked in your own backyard. But, filming you naked without your permission is a crime in most states. You can contact the site and demand they take it down. There are literally dozens of women and a recent documentary made on this very subject of consent and lack there of in the porn industry.
So, it is up to you to find ethically produced porn. You learned the hard way, but now you know.
