My Neighbor Is Doing Lewd Stuff In His Window- What Do I Do?
Randi says her neighbor models dresses and masturbates in the window at her. She’s not sure if she has any rights because he’s in the privacy of his own home. Cooper and Anthony wanted her to know, she needs to shut this down now. Full Stop.
A lawyer friend told us that while it varies from state to state, most states have laws that say something on the order of:
“The person commits a misdemeanor of the third degree if he does any lewd act which he knows is likely to be observed by others who would be affronted or alarmed. It does not seem to matter if the act is on private property, if the property is reasonably viewable to anyone in the public.
And one of the examples given is even, “Doing a lewd act, intentionally, in front of an open window and at time when it is likely to be observed by persons who have not consented to its occurrence”
So, call the police, file a complaint. Let them handle it. You have the right to not be victimized by your neighbor in your own backyard.
Here’s more:
Dealing with a neighbor who is intentionally engaging in lewd behavior in the window of their house can be an uncomfortable and distressing situation. However, there are steps you can take to address the situation and protect yourself from this type of behavior.
Take video and keep notes
First, it’s important to document the behavior as much as possible. This may include taking photos or videos from your own property, writing down the date and time of each incident, and keeping a detailed record of what you observed. This documentation can be helpful if you decide to report the behavior to the authorities.
If you feel comfortable…
Consider speaking with the neighbor directly. This can be a difficult conversation to have, but it may be the most effective way to address the behavior. Try to approach the conversation in a calm and respectful manner, and let your neighbor know how their behavior is impacting you. It’s possible that they may not realize how their actions are being perceived and may be willing to make changes. But if you don’t feel safe, ignore this advice.
Do you have an HOA?
If speaking with the neighbor does not resolve the issue, you may want to involve a mediator or seek help from a community organization like your HOA or the police. A mediator can help facilitate a conversation between you and your neighbor, while community organizations and the police can provide support and guidance on how to address the situation.
Above all be safe
It’s important to prioritize your safety in this situation. If you feel threatened or unsafe at any point, do not hesitate to contact the authorities immediately. Remember, you have the right to live in a safe and comfortable environment, and you should not have to tolerate inappropriate behavior from your neighbors.
